Rev. Dr. Penelope H. Barber - Pastor
Greetings! My name is Penny Barber, and I’m pretty much a normal gal who enjoys coffee (strong coffee), trail riding on my bicycle, and several other sports. I grew up in Memphis, TN, with my parents, an older brother, a younger sister, 3 grandparents and lots of cousins and aunts and uncles. Memphis, the river city, home of the blues and Elvis, is amazing – it was a great place to grow up in the 70’s and 80’s!
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Some of my fondest memories of childhood revolve around my family’s involvement in our church – St. Paul United Methodist Church (which no longer exists, by the way). We had great pastors and loving Sunday School teachers, good music and a lively little youth group – led by a really sweet couple in their 70’s, who always made us chocolate shakes at the annual youth Christmas party at their home. I remember as a kid, loving to go to church…and it’s a feeling that’s never gone away. I still love going to church…but I’m getting ahead of myself.
After playing lots of soccer, basketball, volleyball, and softball, I graduated from High School and went to St. Louis on a scholarship to Washington University. It was my first time to be away from home for any extended period and it was quite an adjustment. Although I had great roommates, I was really lonely and homesick for the first couple of months. But then I settled into some new routines of attending my classes, working at my food service job, going to church on Sundays, and playing with my friends…and college was
AWESOME! College fed my natural curiosity about the world, and my church helped me sort through all the confusing ambiguities (well, many of them, anyway). I grew in knowledge and faith.
Around my junior year at Wash. U., God began calling me to ministry. I pretended not to hear for a while…but that didn’t really help. I talked a lot with my pastor and finally committed to at least exploring the idea. I preached my first sermon at the age of 19 at the Aldersgate UMC in Memphis, on a United Methodist Student Sunday. It was a terrifying and exhilarating experience. My Sr. year at Wash. U. my pastor encouraged me to go spend a weekend at his old seminary. They were hosting an event called “Discover Saint Paul” (that was the name of the school). I went and really enjoyed the weekend and I fell in love with the school. I started thinking, “I could really see myself studying here.” Not only did I discover Saint Paul that weekend, I also discovered a charming young seminary student named Howard Bell, who would later become my husband!
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Immediately after graduating from Washington University, I went to work as a secretary at a computer software company. It wasn’t anything I was particularly interested in, but a friend from church had gotten me an interview and the job had a nice salary with it and I really wanted to buy my first car.
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So I bought my new Nissan Sentra XE – 5 speed, of course – and went to work. Made a lot of good friends, had fun, started dating Howard…but the Lord kept nudging me to go to seminary. After 7 months, I finally gave in. I told the Lord I would go to seminary, but I still wasn’t convinced that being a pastor was right for me. I told the Lord it was up to Him to convince me, but if He made His will clear to me, I would do my absolute best to follow it.
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Howard graduated from Saint Paul and he and I got married in May of 1988. He started his first appointment and I started seminary in the Fall. About half-way through my seminary career, I was ordained a Deacon. That was one of the most amazing, grace-filled moments of my life as I felt the Lord’s anointing. It’s hard to describe, really, but suffice it to say, God had me. I was convinced. As hard as it was for me to believe, the Lord really wanted me to be a pastor. I was so honored, and overwhelmed, and excited! I graduated Saint Paul School of Theology and even received the Ray Kimbrell Award for Excellence in Biblical Studies.
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After graduation, I was appointed to a 3-point charge and my husband was appointed to a 2-point charge in the West Frankfort, IL area. While there, the Lord blessed us with our two wonderful children – David, and three years later, Rachel. And our kids are amazing! They are academically gifted, athletic, energetic, creative, playful, witty, and kind-hearted and they love Jesus! We are so proud of them. David has now graduated from Southern Illinois University in Carbondale, gotten married to a lovely young woman named Kat, and they have blessed us with two grandchildren! Rachel has graduated from Auburn University in Alabama and is now in Law School. And even though our daily routines have altered a lot in recent years, we find that God’s grace is ever-present, helping us find new “normal” and adjusting to new stages in life. Even so, there is rarely a dull moment around here. I praise God for the joys of having a family and church family who lives and plays together, worships together, and love and helps each other. We feel God’s blessings, daily.
Anyway, after the West Frankfort chapter, Howard and I were appointed as co-pastors of the Clinton United Methodist Church, Clinton, IL, and we served there for 6 wonderful years. Next, I was appointed to the Casey UMC and Howard was appointed to the Oblong Evangelical UMC in Oblong, IL. I have also enjoyed the privilege of studying evangelism at Perkins School of Theology on the campus of Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX. I received a Doctor of Ministry degree from them in 2006.
A few years later, Howard was moved to a new charge in Louisville, IL, while I remained at Casey UMC. Then in 2016 I was appointed to New Bethel UMC, here in Glen Carbon, IL. And this is a wonderful, Christ-centered, loving church with a passion for mission! Howard is out of the ministry now and works full-time for the National Archives and Records Center in St. Louis. And while we have all faced challenges from the last several years of the pandemic, we have been resilient and courageous and are still filled with hope for a better tomorrow. And the one constant I see is the love God has for us all. That love has helped many of us find new ways to reconnect. We’ve discovered creative ways to worship, learn, work, and celebrate. And even as so much is swirling and changing around us, New Bethel Church is positioning itself to be an ever-present and vibrant help to our membership, our community, and all of our neighbors. Together, we are making a difference, and together, we can make the world different. In some way - big or small - I hope New Bethel Church can be for you: A light for all to see; a place for all to be; a new church for a new day! Won’t you come to check us out?
My friends, our God still sits on the throne, and God is working in our world and has good plans for us! I am constantly reminded that life is a gift and a wondrous, adventure-filled journey. Consider yourselves invited to join us on the next leg of the journey! Thanks for taking the time to read this. Send me a note at pastorpenny@newbethelumc.org or stop in for a visit at New Bethel Church, 131 N. Main St., Glen Carbon, IL 62034.